GROWING UP IS _____ - Single
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“GROWING UP IS ____” is a song recorded by British-Australian singer Ruel. It was released on December 8, 2021 as the first single from his album 4TH WALL. On this track, Ruel discusses the comings-and-goings of friends and relationships. He wonders if he just disappears out of someone’s life when they cut communication with each other, leaving without a second thought. Ruel tries to imagine what they do and where they are now, showing that he sympathizes with them as he has his own struggles as well. Read more on Last.fm.

The laid-back, soulful ease with which Ruel sings his catchy pop tunes could only be delivered by a true natural. But the British-Australian songwriter—born Ruel Vincent van Dijk in 2002—has also been working at it for a sizable chunk of his life. Ruel was on the precipice of his teenage years when his dad sent a demo of him doing a James Bay tune to producer M-Phazes (Demi Lovato, Eminem) in 2015, kickstarting his run as one of 21st-century pop’s foremost purveyors of feels. His debut EP, 2018’s Ready, proved that he was exactly that—before even becoming a legal adult, Ruel built a record packed with well-crafted, R&B-inflected, chart-ready songs. The breezy rhythm of “Dazed & Confused” is juxtaposed with the heartbreak that staccato strings set front and centre for the throbbing chorus; and “Younger”, with its sugary vocal hooks, bouncy piano and gospel singers, softens the blow of a story about friends growing apart over time. In 2020, his music continued to mature with Bright Lights, Red Eyes. Using a stream-of-consciousness writing style, Ruel’s bedroom-pop vulnerability shines through on songs like the rousing “courage”, creating a tenderness and intimacy that’s impressive for an artist of any age. Read more on Last.fm. User-contributed text is available under the Creative Commons By-SA License; additional terms may apply.